Sometimes, when we drive home from the gym in the evening, we sing to M in an effort to get her to sleep before we arrive home. Our odds are generally 50/50-- she's never been a good car sleeper, but sometimes luck and exhaustion are on our side and we get to skip the increasingly intricate bedtime routine of bathroom trips, lost toys, extra sips of water, chapter books and, of course, more singing. Last night, on the drive, M requested a "sleepy song" and we happily obliged. Julie and I launched into a car rendition of The Indigo Girls, "Galileo"... but we barely made it past, "...as the bombshells of my daily fears explode/I try to trace them to my youth," when Em, from the dark of the backseat exclaimed, "Woah...woah... woah, guys. That song doesn't make any sense. Why was his head on the block? Who was Galileo?" And so we did what any 'ol parents of a preschooler would do and launched into an explanation of heliocentric vs geocentic theories, beheadings, the inquisition and the Catholic Church and the difference between jail and house arrest. When we were all satisfied that M had a pretty good understanding of Galileo's crimes and the Catholic Church's response to his theory (including his eventual 1992 pardoning postmortem) M asked that we start singing it again. From the beginning.
And so we did.
"How long 'til my soul gets it right?/ Can any human being ever reach the highest light?/I call on the resting soul of Galileo/ king of night vision, king of insight"
And again from the backseat- "Wait, wait, wait, guys. I have one more question. Why does she call him a king of inside?"
"Not inside, M. Insight."
"What's insight?"
"An ability to see and understand things in a way that other people may not- just like Galileo was able to see and understand that the Sun was in the middle of the solar system, even when others couldn't, she's asking his soul, or spirit, to come and help her understand things that she doesn't understand yet. She's asking his spirit for help."
"Oh. Ok. Keep singing."
It only seemed appropriate to follow it up with The Indigo Girl's "Ghost."
Learning to embrace the liminal spaces between well-caffeinated and incoherent
Friday, September 26, 2014
Saturday, June 28, 2014
Thursday, May 8, 2014
Shhh.... I'm hunting land clams...
Conditions were right... stole away for 30 minutes before getting rugrat from school and found my first 2 delicacies of the season. If I don't make it to pick-up, check the woods.
Sunday, April 27, 2014
Can I Eat That?
At least 2 years before we had M, I discovered morels. For a person who spent every summer as a kid digging clams on Cape Cod, there are a lot of parallels to be drawn between digging clams and hunting mushrooms. Both are slow paced, intensely focused outdoor activities. Both require you to spend a good deal of time creeping about on your hands and knees. Both garner you strange looks from passers by and both reward you with hand harvested delicacies that most people have only eaten in a restaurant or purchased at a supermarket. With 18+ years of practice under my belt, I can glance at a hole in the sand and tell you if it conceals a quahog, steamer or razor clam, how big it is and how far below the surface it is likely to be. With only 5 years experience landclamming (as I call mushroom hunting), I'm not nearly that good. I've found 2 reliable spots in the area, but I spend far more time on wild goose chases than I do finding dinner.
This is the week that morels generally appear in Westchester- the last week of May and first weeks of June. Armed with a mesh bag and a jackknife, this is the week that I begin creeping quietly along the trails of my hometown and other nearby woodsy areas. I stop every 4 feet, drop to my hands and knees-- sometimes I even lie flat on the ground-- eye the trailside like a pool shark and try to think like a mushroom. Often I come up empty handed. Last year I found one; the year before that, none and the year before that quite a few. One year we found enough to make dinner out of them twice-- gently floured and fried crisp in butter they melt in your mouth and taste nothing like mushrooms. Served with a nice grilled steak... ::insert drooling Homer Simpson sound::
Yesterday we went on our first hunt at a reliable spot that owns a small piece of my heart. I don't know why I find this path so compelling; it's not particularly beautiful or particularly quiet or particularly anything, but it is littered with ruins and rock outcroppings and streams and all sorts of beautiful little finds that keep me coming back for more. When Julie and I had different work schedules I used to use my days alone to wander along the path, noting every teeny tiny change and watching spring ephemerals give way to lush green waysides and late June wineberries. I'd pack my wildflower, tree and mushroom guides along and try to identify and memorize everything's name, calling on skills that I haven't used since an awesome college botany class over a decade (a decade?????) ago.
Sadly, we didn't find any mushrooms; I think the weather has still been a touch too dry and a touch too cold. I'm waiting for 3 days in the high 60's, low 70's, followed by a rain storm and then two warm days for those tasty little suckers to pop. But I was thrilled to locate some new-to-me plants growing along this favored trail.
In addition to the expected dog-tooth violets, lilly-of-the-valley shoots, garlic mustard, solomon's seal, violets and skunk cabbage skunk cabbage I was super excited to find blue cohosh, bloodwort, marsh marigolds (though I kinda knew they were there, but had forgotten about them) and a carpet of periwinkle. Here's hoping that the next few days bring fiddlehead ferns, ramps and 'SHROOMS!!
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| Blue Cohosh |
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| Periwinkle |
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| Bloodwort |
Friday, March 28, 2014
Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Glimpses
Groundsel- The first little bit of bloom I've seen!
The first shoots of my lilly coming up. Last year was the first year it didn't get mowed down or stepped on by the groundsmutilators. We'll see how it fares this year.
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Spring's Ahead
I can't quite manage to capture it properly on camera, but the angle of the golden light across my forsythia make it INCREDIBLY clear that Spring is imminent! 10 days and counting :-)
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